Relocation Guide: Tips to Make Moving with Kids Easier
Moving is hard, especially with children. If you’re thinking about making a move, consider taking a look at these helpful tips to make the transition smooth and easy for your children and you.
Talk to your kids about the move
The most effective way to prepare your children for an upcoming move is to sit them down and have an open discussion about it. As soon as you know you are moving, let your kids know and give them as much information as possible. Answer any questions they may have as truthfully as possible and be open to both positive and negative reactions.
Involve your kids in the planning
Depending on their age, it can be extremely effective to engage your children in the house-hunting process or the search for a new school. Planning their room in the new house is also a great starting point. Including them in the planning will give your children a sense of control and make them feel like their opinion and feelings are recognized.
Start months earlier than you think is reasonable
Moving with children takes twice as long, and it’s not just because you have more stuff to pack. If you think it will take a month to pack up your home, double it – you’ll be glad you did when you aren’t running around the house the week before the move in a panic.
Moving with toddlers and preschoolers
Moving with kids under the age of six may be easier as their age makes it difficult for them to understand change. To make the transition as smooth as possible for toddlers and preschoolers, try the following:
- Be clear and concise. Don’t overcomplicate the situation.
- Pack up the house while they’re asleep, especially their toys! Why? Chances are, while you’re packing, they will be unpacking. Leave one box of toys unpacked for them to play with until the last day.
- Take a field trip to the new house (if it is vacant) and bring over a few of their toys or other items that comfort them.
- Set up your toddler’s new room similar to their old one.
- Keep other changes to a minimum.
- Have your kid(s) stay with a family member, friend, or babysitter on moving day.
Moving with grade school kids
When is the best time of year to move with grade school kids? Two options are the most popular: summer and mid-year. Generally, it is easier to move elementary-age kids. However, they may still need some convincing and help throughout the move. Teenagers, on the other hand, usually rebel against moving homes and almost always rebel against moving school districts. To combat their attitude, ensure they know that you value their opinion and explain to them why you feel like this move is best for the family.
Gather information about the new school and transfer process
What school will your kids now be attending? Once you’ve closed on the new home, determine what information you need to transfer your kids. Information may include a recent report card or transcript, birth certificate, and medical records. It may also be in your best interest to visit the new school before the move.
After moving day
Get your kids situated in the new home before you focus on the rest of the house. To ensure a smooth transition, try to maintain a regular schedule to show your children that not everything has changed!
If you have questions about relocating or if you’re curious about the Reno area, contact the David Morris Group. We’re always happy to share our knowledge of the area and the real estate market!
